Known to many as the talented Lizzy from SkeemSaam Amanda has bravely shared a deeply personal story that reveals the profound pain
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Amanda Manku has recently opened up about the immense sorrow she feels after the tragic and untimely loss of her beloved mother and grandmother.
Known to many as the talented Lizzy from SABC1’s “SkeemSaam,” Amanda has bravely shared a deeply personal story that reveals the profound pain and journey of healing she is undergoing—a narrative that many of us might not know unless we, too, have faced such devastating loss.
In 2021, Amanda endured an unimaginable tragedy when her mother, Gladys Manku, and her grandmother, Letty Maphothoma, were senselessly shot while they were simply carrying out the everyday task of fetching water. It’s a heart-wrenching situation that no one should ever have to endure. The tragedy was further complicated when earlier this year, Amanda’s father was arrested in connection with their murders, and he has remained in custody since then.
This development has taken her on a roller coaster of emotions, adding layers of grief and confusion to an already overwhelming situation.
In a heartfelt conversation with fellow actress Pasi Koetle on “Mommy Diaries,” Amanda courageously opened up about how losing her mother has affected her life. She conveyed that since that tragic day, she has felt like she was living on “auto pilot,” only now beginning to come to terms with her grief. “2024 was that year for me,” she confessed, hinting at the long and arduous journey of healing that lies ahead.
What resonates deeply is Amanda’s raw honesty when she stated, “Something inside me also died the day they each died.” The pain of losing a parent is indescribable, and Amanda does not shy away from acknowledging that reality. Her mother was not just a parent; she was also a dear friend, and her gogo was like a second mother to her. The incredible bond they shared made their violent deaths all the more unbearable, leaving her profoundly hurt and speechless.
“I was angry with God,” Amanda admitted. “I was angry that He took the two women I knew, who were united, God-fearing and prayerful.”
This revelation captures the inner turmoil and spiritual struggle she faced—an experience that many can relate to when grappling with profound loss and questioning their faith. Amanda’s candor about her emotions serves as a poignant reminder that feeling lost and upset in the aftermath of tragedy is perfectly valid.
As she navigated her grief, Amanda initially believed she was coping well. Yet, deep down, she sensed the spiritual presence of her loved ones. “Losing your mother is one thing,” she shared, highlighting the unique and bewildering nature of her grief. During this time, she even distanced herself from gospel music, as it no longer resonated with her emotional state.
What truly struck a chord was Amanda’s reflection on her father’s involvement. “My father was my best friend. He was my pillar of support, and this is the man who was arrested for the murder of my mothers.” Imagine the whirlwind of emotions she must be experiencing—grief for her mother and grandmother, love for her father, and confusion over the situation. It’s an overwhelming burden for anyone to bear.
Despite everything, Amanda has found strength in her faith. “Being weak was not an option. I am the eldest of five children. I had to be strong for my siblings,” she shared. Her ability to transform her pain into a source of support for her family is remarkable, proving that even in the darkest moments, there is a glimmer of hope.
“It’s like I lost my father, even though he is still alive,”
she expressed, underscoring the complexity of her emotions. It serves as a reminder that grief is not only about losing someone to death; sometimes it’s about losing the person you thought you knew.
Amanda’s story is a powerful testament to resilience, love, and the ongoing journey of healing. It reminds us that while life can present incredible challenges, finding strength within ourselves and our faith can guide us through the storm. Let us continue to support Amanda and anyone else dealing with loss, as we all need a little love and understanding in our lives. 💖
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